Forgiveness Is Necessary to Heal from Trauma/PTSD
“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Ephesians 4:32
This article is being written July 2023 when the Sound of Freedom movie about human trafficking is playing in theaters. The movie is triggering adults who were sexually violated as a child. Friends tell me they cannot go see the movie because of what happened to them during childhood. (Raise your hand if you can relate. ✋)
If you have suffered trauma (and these days, who has not?) I have learned of a trauma healing ministry that is reported to deliver major release in ONE session. It is called Discovering MErcy, and learned about it from my friend, Dr. Monzo. I have time only to peruse their site, and thought I would share their reading list, as it may be a good place for you to start. If you are dealing with trauma or wish to help others, please check it out.
When a person is violated it opens a door for demons to attach. Trauma IS spiritual warfare. Even those who have a very strong faith can have demons antagonizing them ...that manifests as a trigger that tears you up inside. It delights Satan when your mind and emotions are tormented. It is important to free yourself - OR these traumatic memories will contribute to sickness and disease later on in life.
My late husband was diagnosed with late stage, terminal prostate cancer. During his journey it was learned that at the age of nine he overheard his stepfather say something to his mother..."He will never amount to anything." As a child my husband was coming down the stairs for a drink of water. His stepfather is a teacher, and an intelligent man. His newer stepson did not measure up in the area of smarts, I suppose. Words can cause trauma, words allow demons to attach. My husband shared this memory, in obvious great distress, as he recalled that night when those hurtful words were spoken. We prayed about it together, and he prayed often in silent prayer. One does not have to be physically violated. Violations can come in the form of emotional trust. My husband never developed a close relationship with his step father.
It is known that cancers of reproductive organs, such as breast and prostate, have an association of parent discord. At a wellness event I heard a speaker talking about this correlation, and he shared how a couple had lost their son in a tragic accident. Within two years the mother had developed breast cancer, and the father prostate cancer. This example is to illustrate the importance of facing your traumas and releasing them to the only One who can truly take that burden from you - Yeshua, Jesus Christ.
From my own firsthand experience, suppressing such emotions does not serve you. In fact, unresolved emotions, buried and you hope forgotten, fester. It is important to your health that there is resolution in the form of true forgiveness.
If you have suffered trauma (and these days, who has not?) I have learned of a trauma healing ministry that is reported to deliver major release in ONE session. It is called Discovering MErcy, and learned about it from my friend, Dr. Monzo. I have time only to peruse their site, and thought I would share their reading list, as it may be a good place for you to start. If you are dealing with trauma or wish to help others, please check it out.
When a person is violated it opens a door for demons to attach. Trauma IS spiritual warfare. Even those who have a very strong faith can have demons antagonizing them ...that manifests as a trigger that tears you up inside. It delights Satan when your mind and emotions are tormented. It is important to free yourself - OR these traumatic memories will contribute to sickness and disease later on in life.
My late husband was diagnosed with late stage, terminal prostate cancer. During his journey it was learned that at the age of nine he overheard his stepfather say something to his mother..."He will never amount to anything." As a child my husband was coming down the stairs for a drink of water. His stepfather is a teacher, and an intelligent man. His newer stepson did not measure up in the area of smarts, I suppose. Words can cause trauma, words allow demons to attach. My husband shared this memory, in obvious great distress, as he recalled that night when those hurtful words were spoken. We prayed about it together, and he prayed often in silent prayer. One does not have to be physically violated. Violations can come in the form of emotional trust. My husband never developed a close relationship with his step father.
It is known that cancers of reproductive organs, such as breast and prostate, have an association of parent discord. At a wellness event I heard a speaker talking about this correlation, and he shared how a couple had lost their son in a tragic accident. Within two years the mother had developed breast cancer, and the father prostate cancer. This example is to illustrate the importance of facing your traumas and releasing them to the only One who can truly take that burden from you - Yeshua, Jesus Christ.
From my own firsthand experience, suppressing such emotions does not serve you. In fact, unresolved emotions, buried and you hope forgotten, fester. It is important to your health that there is resolution in the form of true forgiveness.
FORGIVENESS IS NOT ABOUT THEM, IT IS ABOUT YOU.
As my own trauma of being molested by my grandfather would surface during childhood I was given a multitude of advice. “Write him a letter expressing how you feel, and then burn it.” “Share your hurt in women’s group…once in the open it can no longer hurt you.” “Journal.” Read this book...read that book. Because I was triggered by certain events, news stories, others sharing similar experiences...I was not healed from this trauma despite my efforts.
However, when I was in my mid-40s a wise man said, "You have not truly forgiven unless you have wished your oppressor into heaven." This was not only a revolutionary idea, it was tough for me. I really had to wrestle with it. My grandfather molested me from about age 7 to age 12 (when a cousin finally told her mother what was happening to her, and it put a stop to it). Honestly, in my mind I was certain my grandfather had gone to hell when he had died. But once I gave judgement 100% into the hands of Yeshua, I felt more free than I had ever felt in my adult life.
Today, movies like SOF, hearing victims stories - they have no hold over me. Instead, I am a stronger for the experience and God has molded me into a warrior for the children as I actively take a stand against child-sex trafficking by becoming involved in a local concerned citizen group.
However, when I was in my mid-40s a wise man said, "You have not truly forgiven unless you have wished your oppressor into heaven." This was not only a revolutionary idea, it was tough for me. I really had to wrestle with it. My grandfather molested me from about age 7 to age 12 (when a cousin finally told her mother what was happening to her, and it put a stop to it). Honestly, in my mind I was certain my grandfather had gone to hell when he had died. But once I gave judgement 100% into the hands of Yeshua, I felt more free than I had ever felt in my adult life.
Today, movies like SOF, hearing victims stories - they have no hold over me. Instead, I am a stronger for the experience and God has molded me into a warrior for the children as I actively take a stand against child-sex trafficking by becoming involved in a local concerned citizen group.
FORGIVENESS DOES NOT MEAN TO FORGET, BUT IN DOING SO YOU BECOME STRONGER.
One never knows whom can be trusted - and I encourage you to NEVER allow your children to be alone with someone unless you have completely vetted them. Family members, babysitters, daycare providers, clergy, officiants such as judges, civil workers, politicians - child molestation and trafficking happens every where.
I have followed homesteaders Doug and Stacy for the past year on Youtube. SOF triggered Doug as he was improperly touched by a priest. He emphasizes that ANYONE can be a potential child molester. Doug shares VERY GOOD TIPS for parents. It is imperative that you teach your child to be firm in voice with a resounding "NO" when they are inappropriately touched as soon as they can speak. Consider taking time to listen to Doug's story. One person who commented on the video shared it with her daughter and 10 yr old friend who was over. They discussed afterwards, and it was learned that the friend was being put in a compromising situation. HAVE THE DISCUSSION!
If you have been hurt by a member of the church, or even a close family member or friend...please forgive that person into heaven - for your own sake. Pastor Vlad Savchuk provides a worthy message on the topic of steps towards forgiveness.
Cathy O'Brien, a courageous woman who was trafficked for years by men in very high positions, has a book called, "PTSD -A Time to Heal". The book shares how a former CIA agent that was a part of the mind-control programming, helped her to deprogram. Although he was not allowed to share the methods, Cathy was not under a non disclosure agreement and shares her own story of healing. I also encourage finding her documentary called "Trance" and learn first hand how we are being programmed and desensitized to the ideology that pedophilia is okay.The book may prove helpful, but forgiveness is the all important key to releasing traumas.
I would be remiss if I did not remind that not one of us is without sin. Whom have you offended? Do you hope and pray that you are forgiven? In Ephesians 4:32 we are instructed to “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”
There is no better time to unify for the sake of humanity, and for the children, to say NO to child and human trafficking. Together we are called to pray not only for the victims, but as well for their oppressors, that God may place repentance upon their hearts and take away their immoral desires...that they may seek forgiveness from Christ and turn their lives and ways towards Christ.
It is time to heal ourselves, our nation, and our world. There is no better time to unify for the sake of humanity, and for the children, to say NO to child and human trafficking.
It is time to heal ourselves, our nation, and our world.
I have followed homesteaders Doug and Stacy for the past year on Youtube. SOF triggered Doug as he was improperly touched by a priest. He emphasizes that ANYONE can be a potential child molester. Doug shares VERY GOOD TIPS for parents. It is imperative that you teach your child to be firm in voice with a resounding "NO" when they are inappropriately touched as soon as they can speak. Consider taking time to listen to Doug's story. One person who commented on the video shared it with her daughter and 10 yr old friend who was over. They discussed afterwards, and it was learned that the friend was being put in a compromising situation. HAVE THE DISCUSSION!
If you have been hurt by a member of the church, or even a close family member or friend...please forgive that person into heaven - for your own sake. Pastor Vlad Savchuk provides a worthy message on the topic of steps towards forgiveness.
Cathy O'Brien, a courageous woman who was trafficked for years by men in very high positions, has a book called, "PTSD -A Time to Heal". The book shares how a former CIA agent that was a part of the mind-control programming, helped her to deprogram. Although he was not allowed to share the methods, Cathy was not under a non disclosure agreement and shares her own story of healing. I also encourage finding her documentary called "Trance" and learn first hand how we are being programmed and desensitized to the ideology that pedophilia is okay.The book may prove helpful, but forgiveness is the all important key to releasing traumas.
I would be remiss if I did not remind that not one of us is without sin. Whom have you offended? Do you hope and pray that you are forgiven? In Ephesians 4:32 we are instructed to “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”
There is no better time to unify for the sake of humanity, and for the children, to say NO to child and human trafficking. Together we are called to pray not only for the victims, but as well for their oppressors, that God may place repentance upon their hearts and take away their immoral desires...that they may seek forgiveness from Christ and turn their lives and ways towards Christ.
It is time to heal ourselves, our nation, and our world. There is no better time to unify for the sake of humanity, and for the children, to say NO to child and human trafficking.
It is time to heal ourselves, our nation, and our world.